And then there is
Wendall
His story is much
the same as his friend Wally. But poor Wendall is really afraid of
just about everything and everyone with the exception of his smaller
buddy Wally.
I am very sure that
Wendall has been tackled and grabbed for anything that needed to be
done with him from catching to haltering to even being touched. He
constantly hides behind Wally when we go in the stall with them. We
must reach over Wally to pet Wendall. Yes, he was difficult for
the farrier. This guy is also under one year of age and it is very
clear that no one has ever done anything positive with him. He is
really frightened when we halter him, and is ear shy as well. I
suspect that someone has restrained this baby by grabbing and holding
him down by his ears. Donkey youngsters do NOT normally respond to
people the way Wendall does. He is NOT aggressive in any way but
avoids us if possible. Even though Wally and Wendall were consigned by
the same trader I doubt that they both originated at the same place.
Their confidence level is so very different.
Oh how much less
difficult it would be for us in the business of rescuing donkeys that
their previous owners did NOTHING with them at all instead of using
brute force on them! And how I wish there 10 of me.
***Update
January 30, 2012***
Well, Wendell has been with us
now for about four weeks and has made great progress. When Wendell
first came to stay with us he had to drag a 10 foot lead with him
everywhere he went so that I had something to get hold of first and
then work my way up to him whenever I wanted to work with him. Now he
has attached to his halter a 2 foot "handle", just enough so that I
can reach under his chin and have something to get hold of, he will
still take a step or two backward or start to turn away when
approached but is coming along nicely in that respect.
My saving grace has been the fact
that Wendell absolutely loves his grain and cannot resist it which has
been a huge blessing for me to get him to start coming up to me
instead of me going to him. I started holding his grain pan and making
him come to me to eat his grain on about his third or fourth day with
us, this took all the courage he could muster and any movement of even
my little finger would send him backward 3 or 4 steps, but after about
3 days of that twice a day it became old hat to Wendell. The next step
was asking Wendell to eat grain from my hand which again took alot of
courage on his part but again, he just couldn't resist his grain.
Wendell now will walk up to me when he sees the grain scoop and eats
grain faster out of my hand than I can pour it into my hand.

Wendell carrying around
his inner tube
Wendell has discovered how much fun toys
can be and plays with just about anything I give him, however an old
inner tube from our lawn tractor and an old sweatshirt seem to be his
absolute favorites he tosses them into the air, and plays tug of war
with Tom.
About a week after Wendell came to us my
husband had finished chores ( everyone was belly up to the salad bar),
and my husband walked past Wendell with his head in the hay feeder and
said, " hey Wendell how's it goin?", he said Wendell jumped back so
quickly he thought he might go right through the barn roof! Last week,
after all the rain and thunder we had (in January) we had some
standing water in the pasture which had frozen and when Wendell tried
to walk across to get his yellow toy tub the ice is started making a
horrible cracking noise under him and up went the tail and the front
feet, he spun around on his back feet and didn't quit running till he
was back in the barn! Only after he figured he was safe did he poke
his head out to assess the situation and try to figure out what just
happened.
Tom and Wendell are beginning to play
together more and more, Tom and Jane seem to love bright colored
anything that they can carry around so I have bought from the local
farm store two kind of floppy plastic tubs that have handles sticking
up from the top of them that I use to put all their toys in and they
all love to carry those around after they have taken all the toys out
and scattered them around the pasture, (it's alot like picking up
after the children, I pick them up they scatter them around). Well,
Tom was carrying the very bright yellow tub around the other day and
decided he wanted Wendell to join in, well Wendell wasn't quite sure
about the whole being chased and beaten about the head by that bright
yellow tub, but he did so want to play with Tom so once again he
mustered up all the courage he could and hung in their running with
Tom in the pasture and at least tried to have a good time until Tom
finally dropped the tub. Wendell is really a very sweet donkey who
wants to be brave and have fun but has a few issues from his past we
have to help him through.
**UPDATE 6-29-12***
A good news update
for our cowardly Wendall !!!
Patience and persistence pays off.
Great job foster mom
Marcy!
Mark the day!!!! June 29, 2012, to be
the day that Wendell found his courage!!! Hooray!!! I think someone
kidnapped my old Wendell and left me this Wendell that likes people,
and likes to be touched and brushed!!! WOW!!! Totally different
donkey! The new and improved Wendell will now let me walk right up to
him give him peppermint and reach out and take hold of his handle,
(which by the way I think we will be losing very soon), I just want
to make
sure he isn't just
having a heat stroke or something
first. LOL!! I'm so happy for Wendell.
****UPDATE OCT 12,
2012****
From Marcy Smoker.....

Well, our little bundle of nerves, Wendell, has been
with us now for 10 months and has come along a lot further than I
thought he would. When Wendell first came to us he was dragging a 10
foot lead rope every where he went and if we were lucky enough to step
on the very end of the rope before he turned and went the other way we
could catch him. Wendell didn't care to be touched at all and would
flinch and move away if you attempted to touch him, I was sure he
would only ever be a pasture companion for another equine as that is
who he stuck closest to and was most comfortable with and would do his
best to keep the other donkeys between him and anyone trying to get
close to him.
Well, Wendell began to prove me wrong, I made Wendell
eat his grain for the first few weeks from a dish that I held in my
hands and any movement of my fingers would cause him to leave his dish
of grain and stand back and watch me for a minute, but Wendell loves
his grain and would always muster up enough courage to give it one
more try. As the months went on, he was able to lose his 10 foot
lead and had only a 10-12inch long "handle" because by this time he
has learned what treats were and decided in order to get those he had
to let me get close to him, at this time he still didn't really want
to be touched but would allow his head and neck to be scratched.
On April 28th Wendell witnessed the birth of a new
cousin Sidney whom had apparently adopted Wendell as her Mommy, by the
time I discovered the new arrival, and Wendell seemed Okay with that,
they were trotting around the pasture together early that Saturday
morning, maybe Sidneys' arrival helped Wendell turn the corner.
Wendell is extremely curious and if the other donkeys
are gathered around me he can't help but wiggle his way through them
to see what's going on, and when I am working with one donkey Wendell
is always right there being very observant as to what is happening.
Then on June 28, Wendell apparently woke up and
decided this would be the day he was going to allow me to walk right
up to him and scratch him! Not just on the head and neck, but
anywhere I wanted, still quite tense, but standing still and allowing
me to scratch until I decided to stop! That was amazing and the
breakthrough we had been waiting for. Then on August 1, the farrier
came to do Wendell's second hoof trimming since he came to the rescue,
the front feet were perfect and the back feet just took a couple
minutes of practice picking them up and putting them down with a lead
rope and they were also done with very little fuss, great job
Wendell!
Now, Wendell still is not crazy about people
approaching him, he likes to have control over that, however if you go
slow and reassure him with your voice he now will stand still while
you approach and absolutely loves to be scratched! About 2 weeks ago
I was out with the donkeys taking some pictures when I felt something
on my right shoulder, when I turned my head all I could see was
Wendells' big nose resting on my shoulder, my you have come a long way
buddy!
Wendell is in foster care with Marcy
Smoker. You can contact her at
517-673-5509 or marcysmoker@hotmail.com